Vexxy house rules

Vexxy is for flirting, chemistry and actually meeting people. That means a direct tone is welcome here in a way it isn't on other apps. But flirty and explicit are not the same thing, and that difference is what these rules are holding up.

They're short on purpose. If you need to read a contract to know whether something is okay, the rule is badly written.

Do

Say what you want. Make the first move. Be direct.

Nobody has to pretend they're here by accident.

Don't

Nudity or sexually explicit content. Not in your profile, not in chat. Photos go through automated review before anyone sees them, and the threshold is strict. This isn't prudishness: app stores don't distinguish between what you post and what you allow others to post, and it only takes one crossing of that line for the app to disappear for everyone.

Push after someone has said no. A "no" doesn't need a reason, a second chance, or for the other person to be nice about it. If the conversation cools off, it's over.

Send images nobody asked for. You can send photos in chat, but they arrive blurred and the other person decides whether to open them. Using that to surprise someone with something they wouldn't want to see is harassment, not boldness.

Lie about who you are. Someone else's photos, a fake age, pretending to be another person. If your profile isn't you, you're not flirting — you're deceiving.

Minors. Vexxy is 18+ only. If you suspect an account belongs to a minor, report it. We review those first, with no exceptions.

Selling, promoting or recruiting. No sexual services, no OnlyFans, no crypto, no Telegram group. This isn't a marketplace.

Hate and threats. Against anyone, for any reason — origin, religion, orientation, identity, appearance or disability. There is no acceptable version of this.

Other people's information. Don't post phone numbers, addresses, workplaces, or screenshots of someone else's conversations.

What happens when someone breaks these

It depends on how serious it is. A warning, a photo taken down, a temporary suspension, or a permanent ban.

Some things have no scale: suspected minors, credible threats, and sexual content involving people who didn't consent lead to an immediate ban, and to law enforcement where it applies.

Between "nothing happens" and "you're out" there's a step we use a lot: putting the account under review. That means a person is going to look at it. Nothing is restricted in the meantime, and you'll see it inside the app.

Part of this is decided by the system on its own. When it does, suspension is reserved for cases that admit no other reading; when in doubt, review, which can be undone. Every suspension carries a reason and an end date, and you can ask for a person to review it and contest it. It's set out in the privacy policy.

How to report

Tap the person's name at the top of the chat. Report and block are both there.

Blocking is immediate and silent: they get no notification, and the match and the conversation disappear for both of you.

Reporting comes to us. When you report an image, it's kept as evidence even if the match is undone — precisely so that deleting it can't be a way to cover what happened.

Staying safe when you meet

None of this is under our control, but it's worth saying:

Meet somewhere public the first time. Tell someone where you're going and who with. Get there and leave on your own, without depending on the other person to get away.

And if something feels off, don't talk yourself out of it. Leave.